Change is Not Inevitable
Some women have this idea that men are there to be molded and changed to suit their needs. This becomes more prevalent after a man's married.
When you watch "the game." She can be welcome to support your activities but if she insists you stop, you insist she leaves. Women love what they consider a "fixer-uppers." That's why shows like Trading Spaces and Queer Eye for the Straight Guy exist. Girls think they can take a guy that makes good money and is pretty good looking, and turn him into their fantasy man. Don't let them do it. Your friends and habits were there before she was. She took you as you are. If she's not happy with it, she's the one that changed and she needs to deal with it.
Women: Men don't get hints. Nagging doesn't help. In fact, if you nag, it's more likely to make us doing what you hate, just to spite you. You took the good with the bad, if you don't like what they were doing before you got together then you should have left.
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