Types of Dates
No Coffee, breakfast, or lunch dates.
Why? They're non-threatning. There's no booze. There's good lighting. All the advantages a bar or club are gone. Girls say, "well they're no-pressure situations," or "i don't feel like anything is expected of me afterwards." In translation: "I don't feel like I need to, or should, have sex with him afterwards."
This is bad! It might sound "mean," but you want them to feel pressure. You want their inhibitions a little lower. You want them to feel like something is expected of them. Your chances for getting laid increase dramatically. Nobody ever got laid after a coffee-shop date. There's no point in going. Just say no.
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